Monday, August 23, 2010

A quality education doesn't have to be expensive!




This week's Blog Cruise topic is about the financial cost of homeschooling.

How do you afford to homeschool? What are some ways to save money on hsing supplies?

People really get hung up on numbers sometimes, don't they?  In fact, just this past week I was asked about how much homeschooling costs. The nice thing about homeschooling is that it is possible to homeschool on even the smallest of budgets if necessary.


Before I give some money-saving tips, let me give you some points to ponder about the cost of education.
  • A more expensive resource doesn't necessarily mean a better quality resource. I've seen some high-priced resources out there that simply don't deliver.
  • Homeschooling saves in unexpected areas, therefore balancing out some of the necessary expenses. For example, kids don't have to wear costly name-brand clothes to fit in and expensive convenience food items or the purchase of a school lunch that lacks nutrition is not necessary.
  • Compared to private schools, even a generous budget for homeschooling is much cheaper. Your dollars, directed specifically to your child, will go much farther.

Now, on to specifics on how I personally cut costs in our homeschool while still delivering a quality education.


1. If possible, buy curriculum used.

There are some great swap boards out there. Vegsource and  Homeschool Classifieds are two that I frequent.  Yahoogroups has swap lists as well, some specific to certain programs, such as the IEW Items for Sale list.

Buying used takes some planning, especially for items in high demand, so there is a time investment. I feel the savings are definitely worth it.  For example, let's say I spend an hour of my time scouring lists looking for a particular item. If I save $25 as a result of my efforts, it would be like "working" for a pay of $25.  As a single-income family, I wouldn't hesitate to pick up an odd job here or there with the pay of $25/hour, would you?

2. Sell your curriculum when you are done with it.

I've known some to not want to be bothered with listing items and either let them sit on their shelves or just give them away.  The latter is a wonderful gesture to a homeschool family in need and I don't want to discourage anyone from doing so.  However, if  you are having trouble paying for next year's materials, take the time to sell your used items.  You'll not only bless another family by saving them money, you'll have some cash to make new curriculum purchases.


3. Buy items you know for sure you'll use in the future when you see them at a good priced used or on sale.

You need to be careful with this one, as you don't want to get stuck with items that you end up not using.  However, I keep an eye open for higher levels of programs that I am currently successfully using and know I'll be using into the future.  Sometimes some real bargains can be found and it's worth the savings to have the item sitting on my shelf for awhile.  I also tend to pick up items that I perhaps want to try and are priced such that I know I can turn around and resell at the same price I purchased it for if it doesn't work out. This way I get to try the product without actually losing money on a bad purchase.


4. Barter or borrow materials.

Bartering used to be a common way to obtain what you needed.  I have a friend that offers my daughter writing and literature lessons in exchange for phonics and spelling work with one of her kids. This would work with curriculum too.  For example, you could teach someone's child how to knit in exchange for a program or text the other family is done using. Or, perhaps a friend has some desired curriculum on their shelf waiting for younger sibling to reach that level who might be willing to loan it to you for a year.

5. Seek out inexpensive or free opportunities. Be creative!

I've been able to find many inexpensive opportunities in our area that are higher quality than more expensive programs. 4-H has been a wonderful find.  It only costs $10/student to join a club and there are so many opportunities outside of individual clubs.  Last year, our family received $40 in scholarships to attend already reasonable priced programs, simply by applying. Also, 4-H isn't all about cows and pigs. Check out your local area 4-H to see what they have available.  Starting your own club is very easy and might be consideration if you can't find something of interest.

Don't pass up community programs.  Look at what is being offered with an open mind. My daughter joined a creative writing group in our community recently.  It was intended more for adults, but they were very welcoming to her. It is completely free and she always receives positive feedback on her writing.  Also, I'm not shy about approaching someone offering a class or program in the community about teaching or speaking to a group of homeschoolers.  They are often very willing and will do so at an affordable price.

6. Teach your kids to be frugally minded.

I've been blessed with kids that aren't caught up on having certain items.  For example, my daughter likes to shop at Salvation Army for cheap and unique finds, which saves on the clothing budget.  Both my son and daughter do odd jobs for neighbors and save money for items that they really want.  Teaching good stewardship is a lesson in itself, but the practice will also save dollars in the long-run.


7. Utilize the library and parks!

You might as well take advantage of the resources your tax dollars support!

I feel a bit silly mentioning the library, because it seems so obvious. If your local library doesn't have an item that you need, ask about interloaning it.  Also request your librarian purchase items.  If it is in the budget, they are often happy to try to acquire items for their patrons.

We have several Metroparks in our area that are more than willing to provide low-cost educational programming for homeschoolers.  One such park is even offering a biology class based on a homeschooling curriculum in their lab classroom.  Just because there isn't an already established class doesn't mean they aren't will.  Ask and you may be surprised!

8. Don't feel like you have to do everything to provide a good education. Choose wisely!

In the past, I tended to overbuy and over schedule.  All of those materials and opportunities cost money! I've learned that while there are amazing resources out there, we can only use so many.  My kids don't learn if the materials on the shelves aren't actually used. And if we are running around every day going from activity to activity, the kids will be too scattered to actually get the most out of every activity. Over the years I've needed to learn to say no to activities or materials, as wonderful as they sound.

Homeschooling does not need to cost a fortune to be successful. All it take is a bit of creativity and determination, not a difficult task for a community that already is willing to look outside of the (public school) box.

Saturday, August 21, 2010

I've been triple awarded!

Wow, talk about this being a busy and blessed week.  It has been one of those whirlwind weeks where it seems like I just can't get what is on my agenda done.  Yet, just when I need a little pick-me-up, I receive three awards from some wonderful ladies! Thanks, so much gals!

Both Sheri @ Homeschooling on a Wing and a Prayer and April @ Busy Minds, Busy Hands, Busy Feet awarded me the Sunshine Award.

And then today, Michelle @ A Life Better Than I Deserve gave me the Beautiful Blogger Award.


Both of these awards have the following requirements:

1) Add a link and note of thanks to the person giving the award.
2) Pass the award on to the bloggers whose blogs you love (15 tops)
3) Share 7 things about yourself

I don't think I could possibly come up with 21 interesting tidbits about me, so in an effort to save you all from boredom, I'm combining the requirements and only giving you 7 things for all three awards!

7 Random Things About Little 'Ole Me

1. I used to be a Purchasing Manager and once spent over a $1,000,000 in one day!  Granted, it would have been more fun if it were my own money and it didn't involve large quantities of steel and electrical panels, but hey, it was fun nonetheless.

2. Do I dare admit I refused to date my husband when we first met?  He kinda grew on me! In October, we will have been married for 16 years!

3. May (except the closest of friends) think I am ultra organized.  I am so not! I often feel scattered.  I guess I put on a good front!

4. Ever since I turned 40, I can't type!  I've either been leaving out critical words (e.g. "not") and end up typing the exact opposite of what I mean, or have very strange word substitutions. Fortunately, most of my friends seem to be able to decipher my now cryptic emails.

5. I am definitely not a morning person, no matter how hard I try to be.  I can get so much more done in the wee hours of the night.

6.  I'm really, really claustrophobic. I once got stuck in a friend's bathroom (the sliding door became jammed) and had to be rescued very quickly by another friend yielding a butter knife before I completely freaked out. A pull ribbon was later installed on that door and it is still there today, even though that was about 9 years ago.  What great friends I have!

7. Two years ago, I completely didn't get blogging and had no idea why anyone would want to share their thoughts with the world.  Around the same time, I also hesitantly applied to be on the TOS Crew and almost didn't accept the invitation.  It's just a little ironic that I'm blogging about 7 random facts of myself because of awards given to me by some great ladies met through the TOS Crew, no?

Now, for the fun part, passing the awards along to some great bloggers!

I award the Sunshine Award to the following, in no particular order:

1. Kris @ Homeschooling Momma3
2. Melissa @ Day In Day Out
3. Tonya @ Live the Adventure
4. Alecat @ Serenades & Solace
5. Holly @ A Mommy's Blessings
6. Tracy @ Our Life with 3 Guys and a Doll
7. Tonia @ The Sunny Patch

I award the Beautiful Blogger Award to the following, in no particular order:

1. Denise @ Light, Liberty and Learning
2. Lisa @ The Berry Patch
3. Heather @ Faith, Family, and Fun
4. Becky @ There is Hope
5. Wendy @ Homeschooling Blessings
6. Merit @ Creative Learning
7. Lori @ Loving Learning at Home

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

The Schoolhouse Expo is coming October 4-8!


It's back to homeschool time and registration is open for the online Schoolhouse Expo, October 4-8. It's five days of top homeschool speakers, fellowship, and fun door prizes.

Save $5 per ticket! Register between August 16 and midnight August 22, and you'll pay only $19.99. Plus you'll receive over $200 in free E-Books.

You'll be inspired by speakers including: Zan Tyler, Dr. Jay Wile, Jeannie Fulbright,Carol Barnier, Diana Waring, Todd Wilson, Davis Carman, Kim Kautzer, Lee Binz, and many more!

A special teen track is planned--the entire family will definitely want to listen to these special sessions. We've also planned a special focus on a topic that touches every homeschool--writing. Plus, an array of other topics that will inform and inspire you throughout your homeschooling years.

Don't forget, MP3 copies of each session comes with your LIVE event ticket.

Two special preconference shows on August 24 and September 21 with Dr.
Jay Wile, Jeannie Fulbright, and Kim Kautzer!

Register starting 12:01 a.m. on Monday, August 16.

The theme this fall is "Celebrate Homeschooling!" We're going to celebrate the unique blessings of homeschooling, the beginning of another school year, our families, and the freedom to tailor our children's education to best meet their needs.

If you cannot make the Live event, then the October Expo To Go is just your ticket! You'll reserve MP3s from all of the workshops. This week only, pay just $14.95!

You can visit either of these links to get more information.
http://www.SchoolhouseExpo.com
or
http://bit.ly/aWHFiL

*Disclosure:  In exchange for sharing this information, I will be receiving tickets to Expo to Go at no cost.

Samson's Big Move (4H2O Eco Challenge 2010)

A few weeks ago my daughter the 4-H2O Eco Challenge 2010 camp.  The camp was made possible through 4-H, Toyota, Indian Springs Metropark, and Heavner Canoe Rental.  The participants, grades 7-10, learned not only about the ecosystem, but technology was also integrated into the learning experience. One of the projects for the week was for the students to split into groups and create a video about some of what they learned over the course of the week.  I really appreciated the combination of learning about nature and technology and thought I'd share the end result of my daughter's group, just for fun!

And just a plug for 4-H... if you aren't involved in this organization, you should definitely consider it. 4-H is about much more than cows, pigs, and chickens!



Monday, August 16, 2010

Despite the bumps, it's a rewarding road to travel!


The Blog Cruise is up and running, with the first question being very appropriate as most are gearing up the school year.  This week's question is:

What advice do you have for those considering homeschooling or just starting out? 

Some of my advice would depend on the particular situation, e.g. age of kids, but there is one piece of advice I can give to all just starting out on the homeschooling adventure.

1. Relax and be flexible!

It is very difficult to match your visions of homeschooling with reality when you don't have any experience.  I remember when I first started out with a kindergartner and preschooler. I had grand visions of what our day would look like, how we would conduct school, and the attitudes of the kids. By the end of the year, everything looked completely different from what I had envisioned - and I'm glad for it!

If you are just starting out, it will take some time to figure out what truly works for your family.  Make sure you are flexible enough to deviate from your original plan if it isn't working out.  That is one of the biggest advantages to homeschooling - the opportunity to change what isn't working to something that does.

2. Don't be afraid to move ahead in content or spend more time when needed.

This is related to my first suggestion.  I once had a mom confide in me that her grade-level curriculum was too easy for her child, but she felt her daughter should do every page before being able to promote her to the next grade. What? This makes no sense.  If the child knows the material, move on, for goodness sake!  It is an utter waste of time (not to mention completely boring to the child) to make them cover material they already know, to make it "official" in some way.

On the other side, if your child needs to spend more time learning a concept, by all means spend the time, regardless if a new lesson is scheduled for the next day. You will be doing your child a disservice by pushing them through.  This is what the public schools do and why it is possible for someone to graduate high school barely reading and writing.

3. You may need to spend time establishing your new role in your home.

While I do believe that the older the child, the more a parent should get feedback and explore the wishes of the child, just as you would with any important decision on their behalf, it isn't necessarily a good idea to let a younger child dictate how it is all going to go down.  A mother, who really confide in me that she wanted to continue homeschooling after a rather smooth year of it, put her FIRST grader back in school because that is what the 6-year-old wanted.  Really?

Let's be real - kids like to challenge. I remember when I first told my daughter that we were going to homeschool.  She had attended preschool for two years and had been exposed to all the hoopla on heading off to kindergarten.  She put her little hand on her hip, wagged her finger at me, and said, "I am not going to be homeschooled.  You are my mom, not my teacher!"  He he.  She didn't get far and my stubborn little girl was soon doing math with her mama.  I'm not saying it was easy at first, but just like any new expectation in the house, your kids will challenge you and you need to make sure that they understand you are the parent making the decisions. 

My son, age 11, has never expressed a desire to go to school and I doubt he ever will. Now, whatever happened to that finger wagging girl?  She's a teen now, and does not want to go to traditional school.  I do, however, check in with her on occasion and make sure that attending school is not a burning desire that she'd regret not experiencing.  I've tried to present real pros and cons of traditional school and compare it to homeschooling. If she really wanted to try out school, I would explore options, get her input for why, and see if we could come up with something reasonable. It might mean doing things differently in our homeschool if she felt she was missing out on something particular or it may mean visiting some local schools. It would not mean I would let her make the decision nor would I mean I would dismiss her.  Right now, however, the finger wag comes with a definite, "I will NOT be attending school!" 
4.  If your kids have spent many years in the school system, you may need to deschool a bit.

This is especially important if your child had a negative experience. What is "deschooling"?  It is allowing the child to rid of the baggage of the traditional classroom.  This does not mean you are to just let them do whatever.  However, allow the child to explore interests, gain some confidence, and learn to love learning again. Learning can happen without lesson plans and workbooks, and for a child coming from a bad learning experience, this may be the best thing for them at first. Even if there there are no negative experiences at play in the background, you may want to make a point to show your new students the benefits of homeschooling. "Buy in" will get you a long way.  Go on some cool field trips they wouldn't have been able to do if they were in school, head over to the park for a nature walk, or simply let them blast their music mid-day and dance around for recess.  Which gets me to my next point...

5.  Don't recreate school at home.

Many new homeschoolers think homeschooling needs to look like a classroom.  They have a rigid schedule.  The children are up at 6 a.m. and are doing workbooks by 7:30 a.m.  They get 20 minutes for lunch and mom marks their papers with a big red pen.  If that works best for your family, great.  However, realize it is completely fine for kids to call you "Mom" rather than "Mrs. Smith" and homeschooling doesn't have to look like a brick and mortar school.

6. Get plugged in!

I feel it is extremely important to get plugged in to a homeschool support group.  There is nothing like a group of people who know exactly where you are at to lift you up and give advice.  You'll have the benefit of homeschooling right alongside other families just starting out as well as veteran homeschoolers who have been-there-done-that.  There are all kinds of different groups, from co-ops to casual, large to small, so look around if the first one you come across isn't a fit.

If you live in a rural area and can't find a local group, be sure to get plugged in online.  There are many different homeschooling forums. You can also go to Yahoogroups and search for "homeschooling + your state".  You may find a chat group of other folks in your area.

For those of you just starting out this year, I wish you a very successful year! Realize that all those bumps in the road will be well worth the blessings of the journey!

Sunday, August 15, 2010

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Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Does the post office only lose the expensive stuff?

My daugther's Latin textbooks arrived yesterday. Sort of.  What arrived was an empty bubble envelope with one end completely open.  Nice, eh?  I mean, it was like saying, "See - we are competent enough to get the envelope to your door!  Oh, you actually wanted the $120 worth of textbooks inside. Sheesh.  You can't have everything!"

Now, if I had purchased these books, I could just go back to the supplier and tell them they needed to replace them.  That is how business works.  However, this wasn't a business transaction.  These were loaner books from dd's teacher in CO.  The loss was a double whammy.  The teacher lost one of her classroom sets and I now have to go purchase the books because she had a very limited number of sets to loan.  She actually only had one near-complete set and dd was to get them because she was the first registered for her class.  Now all the used textbooks on the market have been snatched up and I have to purchase these babies brand spankin' new.  Bleh.

I called the PO and informed them of my plight. They weren't insured.  However, they do have some sort of investigation system for lost items.  I'm not overly optimistic. The woman on the other end of the phone took various bits of information such as sender's address, arriving addresses, value, and description of items. "Do you expect foul play?" the woman asked.

"Who would steal Latin textbooks?", I asked.

Come on, it's not like someone is going to see a Latin book sticking out of a package and say, "Hey, I think my kid would like to hear Vergil's Aeneid for a bedtime story tonight!"  Or, "Oh wow - Latin.  I think I'll brush up on my Latin for my next trip to, ah...Ancient Rome."  No, I informed her, I think what is more likely is the PO decided to target this package for their random media mail check and didn't seal the package back up properly.

Now, let me say this.  In all the years of shipping items back and forth, whether it is eBay transactions, sold homeschool materials, or gifts being sent to out-of-town relatives, the PO has only lost three packages of mine.  Actually, that is a pretty good ratio.  However, they only seem to be interested in losing the expensive stuff.  The first MIA package was an airline ticket.  The second was another $100+ book set (that I sold and then forgot to insure, though the buyer purchased insurance...I had to suck it up and come up with a replacement).  Now expensive Latin texts.  All the great offers for credit cards, Christmas cards from people I no longer speak to, and requests for money graduation announcements of relatives across the country that I hardly know....those all make it to my mailbox without a dent or scratch.

So, I now have an "Investigation Claim Number" and I am told someone will contact me in 24-48 with news on whether or not they have located my items.  I suspect I'll be $120 poorer in 48 hours.